rebalance. reconnect. reclaim.

“In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically me because I alone chose it – I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or to myself – I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears – I own all my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes because I own all of me”

Virginia Satir

KALI MA sessions strongly focus on healing our individuality and to honour and experience our uniqueness so we can connect with others in our unique way. In healing our individuality we reclaim our power, self-awareness and self-love to reactivate our own independent direction, to live up to our souls intention as a means to lighten up our inner flames and passions. Healing individuality means balancing our inner system. Each individual is a system within a system within a bigger system …

We can either look at balancing our inner system as healing one specific traumatic experience ( the experience of massive violence). We can also describe it as consenting different aspects, parts, desires, needs, emotions, (…) within us knowing that inner imbalance or inner fighting causes the helplessness characterized by trauma. Whatever causes fragmentation or disconnection during the healing process we will restore wholeness, unity and fullness.

In order to heal we need a safe space. We are focusing on being present and feeling safe in this present moment in time. In my practice we are creating a safe space together – I will support you in becoming aware of what is needed to feel safe as this is the solid ground for healing.

Healing means transformation. Whatever had been passed on to you cannot be erased – this is the *material* you are going to work and create with. They way I will guide you into the transformation process is by encouraging you to add sth. to your *material*. Think of adding yellow to blue. Green is the result of this transformation. You will learn to see *it* through and use your own *material* to create your own way of dealing with whatever causes pain/fear/shame/guilt/… in your life and also keep and value this experience in order to grow. Growing is moving and moving is not remaining stuck in the trauma.

The key to allowing this transformation to happen, to fully settle, longlast and integrate is connection. You reclaim your power by connecting to yourself in the moment of transformation and that makes you the source of your empowerment. The service I am providing to you is guiding, assisting and being with you while you are experiencing the process of selfempowering.

If you think of your soul or true self as the core of your individuality when you are connecting to your inner core you will create a connection between your conscious, sub- and unconscious self and therefore allow yourself to access your inner wisdom and truth. Connecting to yourself is almost like connecting to an eternal source. Whenever you access what is true to you your whole nervous system responds and you can feel a physical shift in your body goosebumps, sign of relaxation like your jaw-dropping, yawning, (…). So when people say “listen to your heart” this is the way of understanding the language of our hearts.

If you need further or more detailed information pls do not hesitate to contact me.